Signs She is Really Into You and How to Spot Them

Woman Smiling While Chatting With Her Date

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

This is a question that men have probably been asking for thousands of years now. We all know that it can be difficult to read women. But when it comes to attraction, are they so hard to read? Perhaps they seem “hard to read” because they are, in fact, not into you.

When a woman is into you, however, you are probably going to know for sure if she likes you. There are some really obvious signs that women will send you to show their interest and their desire for a relationship. We are going to cover 10 of the top signs that a girl is really into you, and we will show you how you can spot them out to save yourself some time and guesswork!

#1: She Will Drop Other Plans to Hang Out

If you try to make plans with her and she has something else going on, she might try to reschedule that prior commitment if she can. And this is a good sign that she is really into you! It can communicate that the thought of hanging out with you fills her with excitement.

You are a priority in the midst of her busy schedule!

Think about it. If someone who does not like you needed a good excuse not to hang out with you, they could use something they already committed to as a way to get out of things. The fact that she would be willing to rework her schedule around shows that she likes and want to spend time with you!

#2: She Will Be Quick to Reschedule

Let’s say she already has something going on for the day that you had in mind to spend some time together. If she is really into you, she is going to be quick to reschedule with you or find another time that works best. She is not going to blow you off if she is into you. She is going to take quick and immediate action, rescheduling with you promptly. And don’t be surprised if she chooses the day and time for you!

Just like our first point, which had her dropping plans to hang out, her being quick to reschedule a time to hang out shows that she is excited at the prospect of spending time with you. She treasures that time and is not going to let any opportunities slip through the cracks!

#3: Her Friends or Family Know About You

If her friends or family know who you are, this indicates that she is talking about you with them. This is a wonderful sign that she is really into you! In fact, any time that you hear a girl is talking about you when you are not around, it probably means that she likes you.

Let’s take things to the next level. If your girl is inviting you to events or get-togethers with friends or family, that is a really good sign! This shows that she could be looking for a relationship with you and is looking for approval from the people that she is closest with!

#4: You Catch Her Watching You

If a girl likes you and is attracted to you, you might catch her looking in your direction from across a crowded room or even staring at you if she thinks you can’t see her. There’s something in our human nature that makes us look in the direction of people to whom we are most attracted, be it consciously or subconsciously. So if you keep catching a girl casting glances in your direction, there is a good chance that she is really into you!

Women Talking Over Coffee

If you disappear from her sight in a large crowd or at a get-together with friends, she might seek you out and follow you to where you moved. You might even hear her in the next room asking someone where you went! Her desire is to be near you. If she is repositioning herself to be near you, you can bet anything that she likes you a lot!

#5: Watch Her Body Language

There are several ways that you can tell if a girl is into you, and they all have to do with her body language. If you find her copying a lot of your movements or mannerisms as you interact, there is a good chance that she likes you. This is a principle called mirroring and occurs when people mimic (consciously or subconsciously) the posture or the actions of those that they are attracted to or interested in.

Another thing you can look for in her body language is if she is open to being near you. If you are in a crowded area with people that you know, there is a good chance that she will prefer to be near you if she is interested. And any time she is in your close personal space, that is a great indicator that she wants to feel close to you. If she touches you or is open to being touched by you, she is definitely into you!

#6: She Will Promptly Answer Your Messages

We are not talking about someone who answers within seconds of getting your message. That is either someone with too much free time on their hands or someone who might be a little too obsessed with you.

We are talking about someone who doesn’t let an hour or more go by without engaging in the conversation.

We might even go as far as to say that they do not let five or ten minutes go by! They are interested in having the conversation, and you can tell that they enjoy talking with you. There are no one-word responses, and there appears to be no indication that they want to wrap up the conversation.

#7: She Smiles or Laughs When She is With You

This one seems a bit too obvious. But it definitely rings true and holds up as one of the best signs that a girl is into you! This becomes really apparent when she will laugh at jokes or comments of yours that are not that funny. Or when you first enter a room, she might be beaming from ear to ear because she gets to spend some time with you. These are all great signs that she enjoys your presence and that being near you makes her day!

#8: She Remembers Things You Told Her

If your girl has a mind like a steel trap when it comes to the things that you’ve shared with her, this shows that she hangs onto your words and what you have to say is of deep interest to her. She is invested in getting to know who you are, and it is going to show when she remembers little throwaway comments that you might have made two weeks ago or a random anecdote or story that you shared the first time you hung out together.

#9: She Will Make No Mystery That She Is Single

If you’ve found a girl that sparks your interest, one way to know for sure if she likes you is that she will let you know that she’s single. Any chance that she gets, she will make you aware that she is not in a relationship with anyone.

  • She might complain about having no one to go with to an event like a dinner or a concert.
  • Or she might talk about how tired she is of being single, a much more forward tactic (but it has been known to happen).

These can even be signs that she wants you to ask her out. Don’t let the opportunity pass you by!

#10: She Will Talk About Important Things With You

One sure sign that she is interested in you and sees potential for a serious relationship in the future is if she begins discussing more serious topics and matters with you.

She might ask you about aspirations when it comes to a career or your personal dreams. You might begin discussing the dynamics of your family and even touch on past hurts or traumas from your youth. You might even talk about your deepest fears and insecurities if you two end up becoming close enough!

No matter what serious topics you begin touching on with your girl of interest, one thing is for certain. The two of you are growing in emotional intimacy and closeness. This is a strong indicator that she is REALLY into you. More than being into you, she is becoming emotionally involved and invested.

Wrap Up

There you have it: 10 surefire signs that a girl is really into you and how to spot those signs quickly! Just keep in mind that all girls are not the same. There are different personalities and different methods for conveying their interest in guys. While your girl might not do all these things exactly the way we described them, these are, nonetheless, some strong universal indicators that she is interested in you!

Matt Marino
Matt Marino

Matt Marino is an online content writer for, specializing in trending blogs and dating app reviews. He is a graduate of Geneva College with a Bachelor of the Arts in Communications.